Ichi-go ichi-e, literally means ‘one encounter, in this lifetime’ or ‘once in a lifetime encounter’. It’s a Japanese tea ceremony concept which came from the master Sen no Rikyu. In traditional tea ceremony, it’s important that the host (the one who serves tea) provide the best possible experience for the guest(s) (the one who receives the tea). In order to do that, not only does the host need to ensure the quality of the tea is top-notch, every single little detail, from posture to ambience, must also be immaculate. All this is to provide the best possible experience for the guest since this encounter may be the first and last one for them. The underlying reality is that life is fickle.
From the guest’s perspective, he or she must also show appreciation by savouring everything with full appreciation and attention. There is total silence. The whole ceremony is a process of mutual respect and everyone involved is fully present. The host serves with all his attention and the guest savours with all his appreciation. This may sound like a painstaking practice but if it’s a once in a lifetime encounter, perhaps it puts things into perspective a little bit more. This encounter may be the only one in this lifetime for both.
Every Experience Gets Multiplied
In essence, ichi-go ichi-e is really just about being present. It’s just another way of describing presence. It’s a profound and succinct description. Because everything in life is transient, every encounter is valuable and may never happen again. I think we can also extend this to every experience, not just encounters with people. By being attentive and present, every experience gets multiplied. Joy is also multiplied. This is also one of the best ways to live a happy life. Why wouldn’t you want to multiply your joy in everything you do?
Ichi-go ichi-e reminds us that life is transient and this moment may never recur. When we give our full attention and be present in every moment, we also multiply the experience. We will appreciate and enjoy the experience so much more. Let this profound concept be a reminder of being present in the moment.